02078pamaa2200205 4500 0000050902 20121213090000.0 121213s2004 eng 0071433864 (pbk.) BF575.L8 KUS 2004 Kustenmacher How to simplify your love : Seven practical steps to letting go of your burdens and living a happier life Tiki Kustenmacher with Lothar J. Seiwert. New York: McGraw-Hill, 2004. xvii, 264 p.: ill.; 23 cm. Includes bibliographical references and index Introduction: Welcome to the land of love -- The first dwelling of love : the tower -- Simplifying idea 1: get to know yourself -- Simplifying idea 2: get closer to yourself -- Simplifying idea 3: fix yourself up -- Simplifying idea 4: prepare yourself for love -- The second dwelling of love : the love tent -- Simplifying idea 5: follow your desire -- Simplifying idea 6: actively seek a life partner -- Simplifying idea 7: learn to flirt--the art of building your tent -- Simplifying idea 8: refine the art of pleasure -- Simplifying idea 9: safeguard your love tent -- The third dwelling of love : the homestead -- Simplifying idea 10: clarify the marriage question -- Simplifying idea 11: build a life together -- Simplifying idea 12: live together intelligently -- Simplifying idea 13: clarify the children question -- Simplifying idea 14: make your life together easier -- The fourth dwelling of love : the dark forest -- Simplifying idea 15: wake up -- Simplifying idea 16: do fight--but fight fair -- Simplifying idea 17: defend your relationship -- Simplifying idea 18: go your separate ways respectfully -- Simplifying idea 19: re-create your relationship -- The fifth dwelling of love : the castle -- Simplifying idea 20: grasp the big picture -- Simplifying idea 21: reconcile the differences -- Simplifying idea 22: live a royal love Interpersonal relations Love Seiwert, Lothar J. http://www.books.mcgraw-hill.com